The truth is that it’s all up to God. He doesn’t just give you a kick-start, and then leave it up to you to sink or swim. It’s true enough that a Christ-follower should learn how to live obediently the life of a fully devoted follower of Christ, and it is up to us to train ourselves through personal decisions and discipline to become the people he wants us to be. Exactly what that means in each person’s life will forever be an issue of personal discovery and conviction, and we shouldn’t insist that everyone else base their experience on our own, and we should never be guilty of making our experience the standard for others.
But the work of grace is constant and never ending. Except for the grace of God working in us all of the time we wouldn’t, we couldn’t, ever become a Christ-follower in the first place, and we could never remain a Christ-follower. His work in us is far more than saving us…his work in us is to make us what we were created to be:
Romans 8:28-30
We know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose. 29For those God foreknew he also predestined to be conformed to the likeness of his Son, that he might be the firstborn among many brothers. 30And those he predestined, he also called; those he called, he also justified; those he justified, he also glorified.
God’s promise to you is to save you for the purpose of making you like Jesus…ultimately to spend eternity with him in heaven…because to love you, to save you, and to make you like Jesus pleases him more than any of us have the ability even to begin to comprehend.
